Our Story

Our love story begins in 2010 on PlentyofFish.com. We found each other through the sea of lovers. Tom was not in town when they connected, and Lexi was navigating through so many others that she saved Tom in her phone as "M". This is the silly story they get to tell their loved ones all these years later. Lexi & Tom's relationship has seen its up and downs, as many do, yet they've stuck together all these years. 

Tom was raised with a Jamaican family, Lexi with an American family (English/German background). Tom's family has had bumpin' parties, loving ceremonies, and a feeling of closeness that has never subsided. Lexi has found a love for serenity. Being from the country hills of Tennessee, the sound of crickets at night and lightening bugs in the yard was the norm. Once she moved to the northeast state of Massachusetts, the hustle and bustle of the cities and suburbs became loud and Lexi searched for serenity. 

One day, Tom and Lexi were listening to music in their home, and they discovered that they both had a love for Jamaican music - Reggae and Dancehall. They pulled up their radio app, searched for dancehall, and their love for Jamaican music, culture, and the vibes was born. They adorned their home with Caribbean items, and felt an even closer connection than ever before.

Fast forward to 2022, Lexi & Tom are visiting a local mall when Tom surprised Lexi with the idea to visit a jewelry store. Lexi picked out some rings she liked, took a walk, and Tom picked out the perfect one. In front of her parents, Tom proposed and Lexi accepted. On July 17, 2023 surrounded by their closest family and friends, they were married. On a beautiful beach with Caribbean decorations and the Atlantic ocean as their backdrop, they agreed to forever together.

Lexi had discovered ASMR in March of 2023 and started crushing chalk at the end of the month. Learning along the way, Lexi has made a hobby (and a mess) out of being an artist who brings crunchy crushes, calming sounds, and a friendly vibe. After watching his wife crush chalk and seeing the joy it brought her, Tom decided to give it a try in 2024. Both of them have a love for this hobby, this community, and the people in it. 

Tom decided to elevate his platform by selling fresh blocks under his moniker WeBeCrushin. He was a huge success after the first few boxes were sold and quickly sold out a month later. Lexi had been selling her powders on other platforms they both decided to create this page.

We hope this shop will help you find everything you need to make your ASMR journey as fun as ours. We are committed to providing the best products with our island twist. Thank you for visiting our page, and we hope you Stay Blessed, Stay Irie